Stop Using Spreadsheets to Track Your Real Estate Clients
Last updated: December 2025
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You're Here Because You've Given Up on CRMs
You tried Follow Up Boss. Too complex. Too expensive. Too many features you'd never use.
You tried LionDesk. Same story - video email? Pipeline stages? Drip campaigns? You just wanted to remember birthdays.
So you went back to what works: Google Sheets. Phone contacts. Sticky notes. Memory.
And honestly? It's working... sort of.
You remember the important people. You reach out when you think of it. You've built a decent business without some bloated CRM telling you what to do.
But here's what you're losing:
- The client whose kid you meant to ask about (you forgot which kid, which sport)
- The past client's home anniversary (would've been a perfect excuse to check in)
- The referral source you haven't talked to in 6 months (they sent you to someone else)
- The thought you had at a red light (by the time you got home, it was gone)
You're not losing because you're bad at your job. You're losing because manual systems can't scale past your brain's working memory.
You need something that helps without overwhelming. Something that works like your spreadsheet but remembers for you.
That's MEMO.
Table of Contents
- The Problem with Manual Systems
- What You're Currently Using
- What MEMO Does Differently
- Features Comparison
- Real Stories from Spreadsheet Users
- How to Switch (It's Easy)
- FAQ
The Problem with Manual Systems
Here's what happens when you track relationships manually:
The Google Sheets Reality
You have a spreadsheet. Maybe columns like:
- Name, Phone, Email
- Last Contact Date
- Notes
- Follow Up Date
Week 1: You're diligent. You log every interaction. You feel organized.
Week 3: You log the big stuff. The small stuff (coffee chat, quick text) doesn't make it in.
Week 8: You only update it when you feel guilty. The "Last Contact" dates are all wrong.
Week 12: You stop opening the spreadsheet. It's out of date. Feels like homework.
The fundamental problem: Manual entry requires discipline. Nobody has that discipline forever.
The Phone Contacts Reality
You keep everyone in your phone. You text them. You call them. It works... until:
- You can't remember if Sarah's kid is in soccer or basketball
- You forget when the Johnsons bought their house (was it 2 years ago? 3?)
- You have 400 contacts but no way to see "who haven't I talked to in a while?"
- You think of someone in the shower but forget by the time you dry off
The fundamental problem: Your brain can only hold 5-7 things in working memory. Your sphere has 200+ people.
The Sticky Note Reality
Birthday reminders on your monitor. Follow-up notes on your desk. A note about Mike's referral somewhere in your car.
The fundamental problem: Sticky notes don't stick. They fall. They get buried. They don't remind you.
The "I'll Remember" Reality
You have a great memory. You've been doing this for years. You don't need a system.
Until:
- You run into a past client at Target and blank on their spouse's name
- You forget to follow up on a referral someone gave you (they notice)
- You miss a home anniversary that would've been a perfect reason to check in
- You lose a listing to an agent who "just seems to remember everything"
The fundamental problem: Your brain is amazing. But it's not a database.
What You're Currently Using (And Why It's Not Working)
Let's be honest about your current system:
Option 1: Google Sheets + Calendar Reminders
What you do:
- Spreadsheet with names, dates, notes
- Calendar reminders for birthdays, home anniversaries
- Manual updates when you remember
What works:
- ✅ Simple and familiar
- ✅ No learning curve
- ✅ Free
What doesn't work:
- ❌ No mobile-first experience (editing spreadsheets on phone is painful)
- ❌ Requires manual updates (you forget)
- ❌ Can't capture thoughts in the moment (too many steps)
- ❌ No "who should I reach out to?" view
- ❌ No context when you need it (have to search the sheet)
Option 2: Phone Contacts + Notes App
What you do:
- Everyone in phone contacts
- Important notes in Notes app or contact notes field
- Text/call from your phone
What works:
- ✅ Already on your phone
- ✅ Texting and calling are seamless
- ✅ No separate login
What doesn't work:
- ❌ Contact notes are hidden (have to drill in to see them)
- ❌ No way to see "who's drifting"
- ❌ No reminders for birthdays, anniversaries
- ❌ Notes don't sync across devices
- ❌ Can't search across all notes easily
Option 3: Paper Notebook + Memory
What you do:
- Notebook with client info
- Post-its for reminders
- Trust your brain for the rest
What works:
- ✅ Tactile and satisfying
- ✅ No tech required
- ✅ Can't "crash"
What doesn't work:
- ❌ Not searchable
- ❌ Not accessible on the go
- ❌ No automated reminders
- ❌ Gets lost, damaged, left at home
- ❌ Can't scale past ~50 people
Option 4: Nothing (Pure Memory)
What you do:
- Remember the important stuff
- Text/call when you think of people
- Figure it out as you go
What works:
- ✅ Zero overhead
- ✅ No time spent on "systems"
- ✅ Natural and human
What doesn't work:
- ❌ You forget more than you realize
- ❌ No backup when memory fails
- ❌ Can't review "who needs attention"
- ❌ Lost context (you knew something about them... what was it?)
- ❌ Invisible mistakes (you don't know what you forgot)
What MEMO Does Differently
MEMO is built for agents who hate CRMs.
Not "hate CRMs but need one anyway." Actually hate CRMs and refuse to use them.
We're not Follow Up Boss with training wheels. We're a different category: Personal Relationship Manager (PRM), not CRM.
The Core Difference: One Simple Job
Your spreadsheet's job: Store information you manually enter
MEMO's job: Help you remember people with minimal effort
How MEMO Works (The 60-Second Version)
Every morning, MEMO shows you 3 people to connect with:
- Sarah (it's been a minute)
- The Johnsons (2-year home anniversary this week)
- Mike (you forgot to thank him for that referral)
You pick one. Tap their card. See:
- Last thing you noted about them ("Son made varsity")
- Why they're on your list ("It's been a minute")
- Their birthday, home anniversary if relevant
You reach out. Log it. Done.
That's it. You "won the day" with 3 people. The list ends.
The Three Features That Replace Your Manual System
1. The Floating Action Button (FAB)
Replace: "Wait until I get home to update my spreadsheet"
With: "Capture thoughts at red lights"
- Always visible, bottom-right corner
- Tap → Type "Sarah's son made varsity" → Tag Sarah → Done
- 10 seconds. 3 taps.
- The thought doesn't vanish.
2. The Short List (3 People Max)
Replace: "Stare at 200-row spreadsheet, freeze, do nothing"
With: "Here are the 3 most important people today"
- MEMO's Pulse system picks them (based on who's drifting + who matters most)
- Maximum 3 people
- When you're done: "You won the day ✓"
- The overwhelm disappears.
3. The Daily Deal (Data Entry as a Game)
Replace: "I should fill out those spreadsheet columns... (never does it)"
With: "2-minute daily game that enriches your data"
- 5 random cards: "Does Andrew have a partner?" "What's Wade's favorite restaurant?"
- Swipe to skip, swipe to answer
- 2 minutes = 35 enriched profiles per week
- Data entry stops feeling like homework.
Features Comparison: Manual vs MEMO
| Your Need | Google Sheets | Phone Contacts | MEMO |
|---|---|---|---|
| Store basic info | ✅ Yes (manual entry) | ✅ Yes (manual entry) | ✅ Yes (quick entry + CSV import) |
| Capture thoughts instantly | ❌ No (too slow on mobile) | ⚠️ Clunky (buried in contact notes) | ✅ Yes (FAB - 10 seconds) |
| See who needs attention | ❌ No (have to scan full list) | ❌ No (just alphabetical) | ✅ Yes (The Short List - 3 people) |
| Birthday/anniversary reminders | ⚠️ Manual calendar entries | ⚠️ Manual calendar entries | ✅ Automatic (surfaces at right time) |
| Last interaction context | ⚠️ If you logged it | ❌ No | ✅ Yes (shows latest memo) |
| Track "who's drifting" | ❌ No (manual review required) | ❌ No | ✅ Yes (Pulse system) |
| Mobile-first | ❌ No (editing sheets on phone is painful) | ✅ Yes | ✅ Yes (designed for red lights) |
| Search across all notes | ⚠️ Yes but slow | ❌ No | ✅ Yes (instant) |
| Works offline | ⚠️ If Google Drive synced | ✅ Yes | ⚠️ Needs connection to sync |
| No learning curve | ✅ Everyone knows sheets | ✅ Everyone has contacts | ✅ 10-minute setup |
| Backup/sync | ✅ Google Drive | ⚠️ iCloud/Google (sometimes breaks) | ✅ Cloud-synced |
| Cost | Free | Free | $49/month ($588/year) |
The Real Question: Is MEMO Worth $49/Month?
Let's do the math on what you're losing with manual systems:
The Referral You Forgot About
- Mike sent you a referral 3 months ago
- You meant to check in, see how it went
- You forgot
- Mike's next referral goes to another agent
- Lost: $15,000 commission (5% of $300K sale)
The Home Anniversary You Missed
- The Johnsons bought 2 years ago
- Perfect excuse to text: "Can't believe it's been 2 years! How's the house?"
- You forgot the date
- They list with another agent 6 months later
- Lost: $18,000 commission (3% of $600K listing)
The Birthday You Blanked On
- Sarah's birthday
- You saw it on Facebook after the fact
- "Oh man, I should've texted her this morning"
- She remembers the agents who remembered
- Lost: Top-of-mind positioning (invaluable)
One prevented mistake = MEMO pays for 600+ years.
But let's be more realistic: What if MEMO helps you get one extra referral per year?
- 1 extra referral = ~$15,000 commission
- MEMO cost = $588/year
- ROI: 2,450%
That's assuming it only works once. In reality, it works every single day.
Why Agents Abandon Traditional CRMs
The Reluctant User
"I have tried a few and am not a fan of what I have used." — Real estate agent explaining why they use spreadsheets instead of CRMs
When old systems don't scale
"As I developed as an agent and my business grew along with me, I knew that my mental tracking system wasn't sustainable. But none of the CRM options felt like… me. I needed something that felt as personal as my random check-ins and pop bys, but could actually scale with me."
- Meg Perry, Nashville agent
The Statistics Tell the Story
Industry Research Findings:
- 50% of real estate agents rarely or never use a CRM system
- Only 27% use dedicated CRM software regularly
- 73% of agents either don't use CRMs or are dissatisfied with current options
The top reason: CRMs are too complex, too expensive, or create more work than they solve for relationship-focused agents.
The common pattern:
- Agent signs up for traditional CRM
- Spends hours in setup and training
- Uses it for 2-3 months
- Slowly stops logging in (feels like homework)
- Returns to spreadsheets or nothing
The problem isn't the agents. The problem is that most CRMs are built for sales pipelines, not relationship management.
How to Switch from Manual to MEMO (It's Easy)
Week 1: Import Your Existing Data
From Google Sheets:
- Export your sheet as CSV
- Import into MEMO (takes 5 minutes)
- MEMO maps columns automatically (name, phone, email, birthday, etc.)
- Done - your data is now in MEMO
From Phone Contacts:
- Let MEMO access your phone contacts (iOS/Android)
- Select which contacts to sync (past clients, sphere)
- MEMO imports names, phones, emails
- Done - you can still text/call from your phone (MEMO just adds context)
From Paper/Nothing:
- Start fresh (import your "top 50" clients manually)
- Or upload a CSV if you have it somewhere
- Don't stress about perfection - you'll enrich over time via Daily Deal
Week 1 Reality Check: 10-15 minutes total. Not hours like traditional CRMs.
Week 2: Start Using The Short List
- Open MEMO each morning
- See 3 people to connect with
- Pick one (or all three if you're motivated)
- Tap their card → See context → Reach out
- Log the touchpoint via FAB
- See "You won the day ✓"
Week 2 Reality Check: You'll actually do this because it's only 3 people.
Week 3: Capture Thoughts via FAB
- You're at a red light
- You think: "I should ask Wade about his new puppy"
- Tap FAB → "New puppy" → Tag Wade → Done
- 10 seconds later, the light turns green
- Thought is saved forever
Week 3 Reality Check: This becomes addictive. You'll capture more than you ever did with manual systems.
Week 4: Play The Daily Deal
- Open MEMO during coffee
- See 5 random cards from your sphere
- "Does Andrew have a partner?" → Yes/No
- "What's Wade's favorite restaurant?" → Type answer or skip
- 2 minutes = 5 people enriched
Week 4 Reality Check: Data entry stops feeling like work. Feels like a game you're winning.
Month 2: Realize You're Not Going Back
- You haven't opened your Google Sheet in 6 weeks
- You've captured 50+ thoughts you would've forgotten
- You've connected with 60+ people (20 per week × 3)
- You've enriched 200+ profile fields via Daily Deal
- Your sphere feels alive again
Month 2 Reality Check: This is now how you work.
FAQ: For Agents Who've Given Up on CRMs
"I tried CRMs before and hated them. How is MEMO different?"
Traditional CRMs: Built for sales teams. Pipeline stages, lead scoring, activity quotas, drip campaigns, red badges.
MEMO: Built for relationships. 3 people per day, quick capture, no guilt, no complexity.
The difference: Traditional CRMs are tools for "managing leads." MEMO is a tool for "remembering humans."
If you hated CRMs because they were overwhelming, MEMO is the opposite.
"Will I have to spend hours setting this up like other CRMs?"
No.
- Import contacts: 5 minutes (CSV or phone sync)
- Setup: 5 minutes (add your role categories, set your orbits)
- Training: 0 minutes (it's three features: FAB, Short List, Daily Deal)
Total: 10 minutes.
Compare that to Follow Up Boss (2-3 hours), LionDesk (1-2 hours), or "building your perfect Google Sheet" (ongoing).
"My Google Sheet is free. Why should I pay $49/month?"
Fair question. Here's the math:
Your Google Sheet costs:
- $0/month in software
- 10-15 hours/year in maintenance (updating, fixing, organizing)
- The referrals you lose because you forgot to follow up (conservatively: 1 per year = $15K)
MEMO costs:
- $49/month ($588/year) in software
- 0 hours in maintenance (it just works)
- The referrals you DON'T lose because MEMO reminded you (conservatively: 1 per year = $15K)
Net difference: $15,000 - $588 = $14,412
MEMO pays for itself if it helps you get one extra referral every 10 years.
More realistically: It pays for itself every month.
"Can I still use my phone for texting/calling?"
Yes. MEMO doesn't replace your phone.
When you tap "Reach Out" on someone's card, MEMO opens your native texting app (or calling app).
MEMO gives you the context (what to say), you use the tools you already have (your phone).
No "yet another inbox" to check.
"What if I want to stop using MEMO? Do I lose my data?"
No. Your data is always exportable.
- Export to CSV anytime
- Take it to another system
- Import back into Google Sheets if you want
No contracts. No data hostage. Cancel anytime.
"I'm not technical. Is this going to be complicated?"
If you can use your phone's Contacts app, you can use MEMO.
There are three things:
- A button (FAB) - you tap it to log thoughts
- A list (Short List) - you see 3 people to contact
- A game (Daily Deal) - you swipe to answer quick questions
That's it. That's the whole app.
No menus to learn. No settings to configure. No training videos to watch.
"What about birthdays and home anniversaries? My calendar already does that."
Calendar reminders work... until they don't.
Problems with calendar-only:
- You have to manually create each reminder
- They fire at 9 AM whether you're ready or not
- They don't give you context ("Sarah's birthday" → but who's Sarah?)
- They don't connect to your contact info (you have to find their number separately)
MEMO's approach:
- Birthdays/anniversaries surface automatically (within 7 days)
- They appear on The Short List when timing is right
- Context is built in ("Sarah - Birthday in 3 days | Last memo: Son made varsity")
- Tap to reach out instantly
You can keep calendar reminders if you want. MEMO just makes them better.
"I only have 50-100 sphere people. Do I need this?"
Yes - you're exactly who this is for.
MEMO isn't for agents with 5,000 leads in a pipeline. It's for agents with 50-500 sphere people they genuinely care about.
50 people × 2-3 interactions per year = 100-150 touchpoints to remember.
Without a system:
- You'll remember 70% (the loud ones, the recent ones)
- You'll forget 30% (the quiet ones, the ones who drift)
That 30% is where your next referral is hiding.
"Can I try it before paying?"
Yes. 14 days free. No credit card required.
Import your contacts. Use The Short List for a week. Capture thoughts via FAB. Play The Daily Deal.
If it feels like your spreadsheet but better: Keep it.
If it feels like yet another CRM: Cancel it. No hard feelings.
Most agents know within 3 days whether MEMO is for them.
The Bottom Line: Your Manual System Is Costing You Money
You're not using a CRM right now because:
- ✅ You don't like complexity
- ✅ You don't want to feel behind
- ✅ You don't have time for "system maintenance"
- ✅ You build business on relationships, not pipelines
Those are all good reasons.
But here's the problem:
Your manual system is invisible. You don't see what you're losing. You don't know about the referrals that didn't happen because you forgot to follow up. You don't see the clients who felt forgotten and listed with someone else.
The losses are silent.
MEMO makes the losses visible - then prevents them.
It's not a CRM. It's a memory aid for people who hate CRMs.
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